Adding Dimensions

dimensions

When you think about personal development and growth, it is one thing to learn something new to get marginally better, but learning completely new things to “add dimensions” is a whole next level.

As a matter of fact, add dimensions should be the best way to prioritize projects in your pipeline. Allow me to elaborate…

If you are a “flatlander” and live on a piece of paper, you can move either in the X-axis or the Y-axis. If you figure out that there is a Z-axis and start flying out of the paper and landing on a different spot on your paper, you have added a new dimension to your capabilities.

Same is true if you learn a new language, new program, new job skill, etc. You make your competition irrelevant and obsolete very quickly.

Of course it is not easy. But adding a new dimension never is!

Personality Types

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  • Driver — Fact-Based Extrovert
  • Analytical — Fact-Based Introvert
  • Amiable — Relationship Introvert
  • Expressive — Relationship Extrovert

I wanted to talk about these 4 personality types more…but I found that someone had done a good job with this already. No reason to re-write it here, so here is the link.

It is important to know the personality of the person you are talking to. That way you can handle the conversation better. It is like dancing – know your partner’s dancing style and you can adjust accordingly.

Path of Least Resistance

path of least resistance

In nature, the path of least resistance is always taken. Examples of this are found in:

  • electricity: the circuit with the least resistance is completed first
  • water: the widest pipes flow the most water

When it comes to people, the same is true. People resist change. This is also called the “familiarity bias”. Our mind evolved to play it safe. For ancient hunter-gatherers, the unknown path back home may be patrolled by wolves, so we take the same path back.

But, this familiarity prevents growth. How can you tell if you are becoming complaisant? It’s easy: do you feel resistance? If the answer is yes, then push forward. A lobster – to take another obscure example from nature – needs to change it’s shell several times to allow it to grow.

So be like the lobster and push outwards. When the resistance becomes too much, change into a larger shell.

Quote: “Will” by James Allen

You will be what you “will” to be;
Let failure find its false content
In that poor word, “environment”,
But spirit scorns it, and is free.

It masters time, it conquers space;
It cowes that boastful trickster, Chance,
And bids the tyrant Circumstance
To uncrown, and fill a servant’s place.
The human will, that force unseen,
The offspring of a deathless Soul,
Can hew a way to any goal,
Though walls of graite intervene.

Be not impatient in delay
But wait as one who understands;
When spirit rises and commands
Then God is ready to obey.

The river seeking for the sea
Confronts the dam and precipice,
Yet knows it cannot fail or miss;
You will be what you will be!

Lag Operator

lag operator

All sensors have a “Lag” factor. This is the amount of time (or some other variable) needed to catch up with the response.

Don’t worry, this is the extent of science I want to discuss here. I am interested in applying this knowledge to practical life. And this is perhaps how the “Lag” factor works:

When you learn a new skill or are acquiring new knowledge, there is a time delay before you start seeing the results. This “Lag” tells you how your mind and body behaves. Understanding your Lag will allow you to improve it.

What gets managed, gets accomplished.

10 Must Read Books, and Why You Must Read Them

This list is in order of influence it had on me.

1.The Selfish Gene

The single most significant book I have ever read. It talks about biology, evolution, society structure, individualism, genetics, memetics and everything that is Homo Sapien related. The ideas and discussions in this book were a door-opener for me into exploring other books on human society and religion.

2. How to Win Friends and Influence People

What is the best way to be liked? Show genuine interest in others, active listening and empathy. These are the core principles of successful sales people and leaders alike.

3. Rich Dad Poor Dad

Understanding the difference between Assets and Liabilities is very well explained in this book.

4. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

No list of top ten books is complete without this. The habits in this book are explained in a practical way and easy to remember and implement. You can make wallpapers out of this.

5. Eat That Frog

If you are presented with a plate of frogs, which one do you eat first? Why eat the ugliest looking and biggest frog first.

6. The One Thing

We cannot multi-task. Focus on the important things that result in biggest affects – i.e. Pareto’s Law, i.e. the 80/20 principle.

7. The Compound Effect

Start with: your core values>choices you make>habits you develop>build momentum>compound over time>arrive to your destination.

This was the workflow outlines in this book to help achieve your goals.

8. The Power of Habit

Cue>Routine>Reward

To change a habit, keep the cue and reward, change the routine. Identify your triggers and root cause for the bad habits. Identify your Keystone habits. Realize that willpower is a limited resource.

These were my takeaways from this hugely practical book.

9. Managing Oneself

Another influential book to boost your productivity to the next level. It has simple English and practical lessons you can start using immediately.

10. Pitch Anything

In order to get others to do what you ask, realize that the human brain is primitive and limited in it’s capacity. There is just too much noise to pay attention to what you have to say. When two parties meet, their “frames” clash and stack. The frame on top is the dominant one.

11. Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion

This book is about the psychology of marketing.

12. Financial Intelligence of Entrepreneurs

Practical book for anyone interested in becoming an entrepreneur.

 

So there you go. A couple of bonus books. I could add a handful more, but these are the most significant ones.

 

Important Disclaimer

It is easy to get side tracked and forget the reason you started reading these “productivity books”. Remember your goal and what you need to accomplish. These books are just a means to help you get there.

The following tips are for optimum reading habits:

  • start with watching a summary video on the book or read a summary article. If the summary seems something that will help you, then dig deeper
  • do not “read” the book, instead listen to the “audio book” version
  • make your own summary notes as key takeaways while you listen to the book. This should be no more than a couple paragraphs, or a few bullet points. Every book just has a few ideas – about 2 ideas on average. The rest is “fluff”. Having a short summary means you can start to apply what you learnt
  • if you can find a copy of the book in audio format from your library, that is ideal. Use an app to do this. Do not pay for your first read because you don’t yet know if the contents are good for you. If they are significant, then you can put the book in your “personal library wish list”, with the intention of lending to other
  • track the books you listen to in a spreadsheet

 

Have fun!

Our Brain and Sensors

Our brains are just like sensors.

Characteristics of a good sensor:

  • Drift: good sensors do not drift and maintain a baseline. This is analogous to brain maintaining focus.
  • Signal-to-Noise Sensitivity: ability to detect a signal in the background of noise. Analogous to the brain being able to pick out a sensory signal such as someone calling your name in a crowd.
  • Resolution: the ability of a good sensor to differentiate between two close lying signals, like a brain being able to distinguish between two similar things.

The concepts of Sensitivity and Resolution are contrary: you can’t have both of them. The idea is to know what it is you want and find a balance between the two.

So how do you calibrate this brain sensor?

Meditation.